Author: Kimberly Blakes
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Untangled 6: Australia
Two days had passed since I left him my phone number, and he hadn’t called. I was beginning to get in my head and overthink. I needed wisdom, so I spoke with a client of mine named Jill about the situation to get an unbiased assessment. She listened to what I said and responded, “You…
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Untangled 5: was I dreaming?
One night in mid-October of 2016, I was scrolling social media while winding down for bed. I came across the picture of an old classmate from high school. I gave the picture an obligatory like and kept scrolling. I then got a message notification from that classmate asking how me and my business were doing.…
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Untangled 4: Quiet before the storm
After my deliverance I gave her a big hug of relief and walked her to the door. I can still remember the smile on my face, it was deep, sincere, and immovable. Later that day I tried to pull him back to my mind to confirm the deliverance, but I couldn’t. I had forgotten what…
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Untangled 3: Deliverance
I didn’t like her name. I didn’t like her hair. I didn’t like her teeth. She had two children, was very athletic, and pro-Black. On her page, she had more of the wedding pictures than he did, he has only the one. He seemed so happy at the wedding and reception, not gonna lie, that…
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Untangled 2: disobedience
Just like that it was over.. that was it. The man I thought I loved was now engaged. What was it about her? Why was I not given a chance to plead my case? Y’all I cried like somebody died. I cried for my perceived loss. After reading the comments I had to then make…
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Untangled 1: he was engaged
When I met my first narcissist I was a year out of a dating situationship that left me vulnerable. I thought I needed someone to get over the last someone. I didn’t want to sit in my feelings and get whole, like I knew I should. I needed to know I was wanted, the revelation…
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Untangled: introduction
In early 2024, there was a viral series on TikTok by a woman named ReesaTeesa. I saw some blurbs on my Facebook and decided to give it a listen. I hadn’t planned on listening to the entire series, but I was hooked. She went into first person detail about her Narcissistic abuse healing journey. I…
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Like Minded
Truth is… you only gravitate toward people who have something of you inside of them. So, if you’re hanging with adulterers, liars, gamblers, fornicators, atheists, etc., something inside of you calls to them. I ain’t got NOTHING in common with an atheist; that’s why they don’t stay too long on my blogs or socials.The Bible…
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Joseph Of The Family
There’s one in every family. God chooses a person in every family to set aside for His use. You are the Joseph. This can be lonely and painful. When you go against everything taught and in your own direction that will cause rejection and isolation but under NO circumstance are you to run back. You…
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Blind them!
When Elijah had to face the prophets of Baal in a showdown, he didn’t wring his hands and talk about how many there were or how successful they had been in the past. He knew his God.. and those who KNOW their God shall do exploits. He taunted them then called down fire. How can…
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