I’ve been thrown in Facebook jail before—many times, who am I kidding? I had one page that would get 3–7 days every other week, then they went to 90 days at a time. I had never been banned until now. A ban hurts a little more because it feels so final. You can’t even see the platform unless someone shows you on their phone. No Messenger, no Marketplace, no nothing.
My musings, thoughts, business pages, groups, videos, and pictures were all on that platform. My mistake was building on a foundation that was not mine and that could, at any time, kick you out. Here I am—16 years of my life marked for permanent deletion by a corporation.
The many emails notifying me of each page of mine removed said I didn’t follow the community guidelines regarding guns and drugs. I have never owned either. That’s the kicker—I’m not even guilty of the accusations. First, I was in shock. Then anger set in. And then, sadness.
I didn’t realize how dependent I was on the platform. I had over 20K followers and have made so many great friends. I’ve held retreats, gone on cruises, attended events—and best of all, I’ve been encouraged by these “strangers.” It was awesome while it lasted. To me, they’re not strangers anymore. I’ve been supported spiritually, emotionally, and financially by many of these people.
The other night, I lay on the couch trying to pick up the pieces from this divorce when my phone rang. It was a prophet. We exchanged pleasantries, then she asked about the retreat—and I cried. I’m not sure why I cried. I didn’t cry before then. I told her I have no way of telling anyone or posting anything because I’ve been banned. I tried to stiffen my upper lip so she wouldn’t know, but she knew. I was physically sick.
As I’ve said, I have been on Facebook for over 16 years. It has become a part of my life, so it feels like a death. She prayed for me. She spoke to the pain I was feeling and asked another prophet, “What has God said?”
The other prophet said, “All I hear is, It’s temporary. There are things going on behind the scenes, and God will get the glory.”
The devil wants to stop the retreat. I figured it was that. I was getting too many messages and verbal reservations. I thank God He saw fit to tell me.
Today, I have peace. No background thoughts. No agitation at the state of the world—because I don’t watch the news, so I have no idea who’s doing what. I also came to the stark realization that life goes on. The memes are still flowing, the posts are still being shared, and life online is happening without me. In a few days, people will have forgotten I exist.
I need to be about my Father’s business anyway. It’s amazing how something like this helps you put things in proper perspective.
While I’m on a break, detoxing, I will put it all in proper perspective. This will pass. It’s temporary. Everything in this life is temporary.
iamkimblakes 
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17 responses to “Everything is Temporary”
Hi Kim…what is your email address?
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The email address request is from Lynne, Naper
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Hi Lynn, my email is kimberlyblakes@yahoo.com. Janice Pond’s has shared a post on FB as well. I’m working on getting something more solid going, as I would like my own uncensored platform.
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I have been saying this for decades now. Everything in this life is temporary. Hang in there! I’m positive you’ll be vindicated. And I agree, we shouldn’t build anything on someone’s platform especially Facebook. They are not fair about anything and never have been. Don’t worry–you are still followed, admired, loved and supported! {{{hugs}}}
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Hang in there, Kim! So many people are praying for you. I’m happy you’re at peace and waiting on The Lord. Also, I CANT WAIT UNTIL “YOOUUU’RE BAAACK! Miss you bunches.
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Leslie! Thank you so much! I got your PayPal AND your wonderful words of encouragement. I will definitely keep you posted on where I’m sent next. God is good.. the devil can not and WILL NOT stop me.
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Infuriating!! Miss you and praying! Heidi OrahoodSent from my iPhone
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Hi Heidi!! Miss you guys too! 😩 thanks for the encouragement!
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Please keep sharing!! Yes, Facebook is owned by others and is their playground. I’m thrilled to have made contact with you.
Respect,
Michael
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KIM !! Wow 😮
I’m praying your page be restored fully ! You have inspired me so much I look forward to your posts every time I log into facebook 🥺 but this retreat is going to be so powerful. I’m very proud of you for setting this up and how far you’ve come. I remember your bible distribution! I have invited my niece and a friend that would like to check out the website for the retreat ! Is that still up !?
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Hi Kelsey! Unfortunately Facebook removed the retreat page as well. There is some info on my instagram account. I’m working to post more there and on TikTok. I believe the shut down was to discourage the retreat. It won’t work! My IG is Kim_Blakes. They’re welcome to email me as well with any questions. Bring them along, as long as you don’t mind sharing a room.. lol.. the more the merrier! Let me know and send me their shirt sizes 😊
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Hey doll! I have a new page on Facebook. It’s under my name.
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Oh my!! I was wondering what happened!! I hadn’t seen a post in a few days and I thought, “today is Resurrection Day! Where is Kim??!” So I dug around and realized you weren’t on FB at all 😵💫 Then I remembered your wonderful blog and hoped I could connect with you, maybe find out what happened 🙏🏼 I’m so sad and angered to hear of this sham of a decision by FB 😭 Just want you to know, you are NOT FORGOTTEN!! God knows, many who care deeply about you will find you, and our prayers will chase you down!! Bless you Kim with an amazing open Heaven, peace that surpasses all earthly understanding, and strength in all of your moves; every Spirit-led undertaking will lead to your success, in Jesus Name 🙏🏼 I’m sharing my email address with you. Please don’t ever feel obligated, but if needed you know how to reach me ❤️
cyndi.wall2010@gmail.com
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Hi Cyndi!!! Happy Resurrection Day! I feel blessed that you have sought me out to give me some encouragement. I’m so thankful for you. I believe that God will make things right and my page(s) will be restored. I miss you guys. God has been so kind to me this week, He’s filled the empty place and has encouraged me to press forward knowing that HE is in charge. Thank you! And I will save your email, thanks for subscribing! I’m working on something big on my website http://www.kimblakes.com
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so sorry to hear what happened…I was posting and was like…I haven’t seen anything from sister kim in a minute.. is she ok??…but glad to see your ok, and will keep all this in prayer…God got a big blessing for you and the devils scared…
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