People say things because that’s what they perceive..even if it’s not true. Some say there are no good men or women because in their limited experience they have not come across any. However there are folk getting together and getting married everyday. Are they marrying trash or do they have a different more optimistic perspective?
I know there are some great men out here even though I haven’t met many. I would never subscribe to that lie. I don’t have to use my passport either. There are some saved alpha males right in this vicinity that don’t hate women. There are some who are not whining about their role and some that are praying and believing to get a daughter of God for himself. Many are still looking because they have not shifted their view of things. If you change your paradigm you would have better success. If you believe there are none.. well for you there will not be any.
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I know so many good men. I have a family full of them-cousins, son, brother in law, son in law, uncles, grandfather. So many. So many good marriages. I’ve seen them, I know they exist. However, for some reason, I picked men who were not right for me. My first husband was not a Christian. I wasn’t either, even though I was surrounded by Christians. I was a cynic. When I became one during that marriage, he was not happy with me. It ended badly with him actually trying to strangle me. I left in a couple of days never to go back. I moved & eventually met my second husband. He said he was a Christian. We went to a good church that preached the gospel. During our first year together, he got a woman pregnant. I didn’t find out for four years, although I had so many doubts about him. Too many strange phone calls, & weird activity. I left shortly after finding out. That followed with me being anything but Christian for a couple of years. One of my biggest regrets, those years. I did snap out of it when I became very ill. When brought down low, the only place to look is up. I’ve not turned back, that is 30 years ago. I’m single now, content with my life. I’m thankful for all that God has given me, despite myself.
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thank you for sharing your. Many of us are mishandled by those who claim to know God. I’m sorry you went through that.. you didn’t deserve it.
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You can’t change the past. I’m ok, I have much to be thankful for. Thank you
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